Understanding each other

Last day , I understood again that commumicating with people in some condition was realy diffucult.Even though this reality was well known in my background, this happened to me again.On the other hand, beside the issue of understanding each other, I took a few lessons about how we could put away an unnecessary discussion.

Pls, excuse me in advance that I am not clever and wise as much as the specialist giving you the rules of how you can get on well with people.However, at least ,such experience as I tell you can remind us some of our knowladges.In short , while speaking to one of my dear friends,he suddenly claimed that I looked down on him .Oh my God, my last word was 'what ' by dropping my chin.Afer I struggled to convince him of my innocence a long time, he still went on blaming me. it is the last thing I want to hurt any hearts on purpose, let alone humiliate my friend.So, I figured out the fact that it was useless to tell how much I was sory and being misunderstood at all. when everything started getting worse, It could be best choice to run away from this boring and unproductive situation.It is beacuse my feeling started conquering my brain.I was not able to countenace myself pushing in a position of being perceived wrong whereas my thesis was complately true.First of all , One must never lose respect to himself and then expect others to respect in return. A low level argument never cause the goodness and also doesnt work out for me.Maybe , you don’t approve of my sentimental behaviour and ask me why I let myself get bogget down in minor details.Actually, important things are hiden in minor detail. Morever, rather than bring about an irreparable consequence or making a scene, I prefer to calm down

Needless to say, the sentence he accused me of wander in my mind and made me preoccupy for a while.There is a saying in my country.The word is like an arrow out of an arch. After shouting an arrow, It can never be taken back.To put it blunly, a sentence included in two different meaning is realy a big risk.Dealing with someone who can't surely understand what your sentence convey is just a terribly awful nighmare.To be able to comrehend the point of words and sentences, we need enought important elemenents such as knowladges,intellectual curiosity, sensitivity, confidence,the sense of humour, comon sense etc. I tried to explain everything to him, but it came out all wrong.Instead of focusing on the words,the intention must be learned to decide whether they are good or bad. If we omit this magical word 'intention or mean ' - which may well be the case - I am quite sure all conversation turned into a foolish quarrel. At the every incidents we face, our behaviour ,thoughts and feelings shoul be primarily questioned to make progress about personal feautures.Actually, I can’t also pass without clarifying that you are not capable of smoothing over any awkwardness of the situation in an unilateral struggle if we mention about two persons.As far as I remember that he didn’t look sad.Let us assume that he had got even a big problem, was he right to vent his temper on me? This kind of attitude dont help him solve any problems but accelarate to make mistakes in his life. As you know, sometimes, the words become weak and meaningless.No matter how much you know , you can only know as much as one you have already spoken.The time is always a good medicine.In the diffuculties of life, time is the best teacher and also mold human into good shape and character as well.

Pls dont get me wrong. I haven’t trouble with my friend as much as you guess.This event between us lasted about 15 minutes and then it came to an end when I exited from the room.In fact, I have to admit that assessing this issue took much time for me.I have never regret spending much time and never been feed up with examaning the relation between people.Because, that is only one way we can improve our personality.

Avatar

I am not able to belive that I missed the most exciting movie to watch in the three dimension at the cinema. Whenever I wanted to watch it, somehow, something unexpected happened to me. Hence, this thrilling activity was reluctantly put off and , of course, it couldn't be helped.

You can easly guess that I mentioned about Avatar movie advised by all authorities. Unfortunately, I couldn't find any cinemas to see this latest hit movie at this weekend.Finally, one of my friends felt sory for my condition and then lend me a Cd. As you know, watching a movie on televison or computer is never as ell as watching it at the cinema. Moreover, three dimensional capability, audio system and a huge secreen are not questionable when it come to compare the cinema with another visual devices.On the other hand, I must be grateful to my friend because of fact that watching cd is better than missing this marvellous film. By the way, pls dont forget that there is something such as a home theatre which almost make you feel like you were at the cinema. whether or not it woul be true if you haven't watched it yet. But, I want to write some of my comments.This movie is realy worth watching even though it take you at least three hours.In an article which I don't remember where I read, It declared that Avatar was the best one on the technical and visual affect at the last decade years.Indeed, what I saw corroborate this words. Without any breath, this fictional perfect show fascinated me and, it was be a noteworthy entertainment at this weekend either.

You have been more likely to hear how much it is technical and surprisingly quality at the computer animation and three dimensioanal area. Nevertheless, I dont want this writing to convey this subject.It is just because my job isn't neither a specialist in movies nor a writer in a newspaper.What I want to to tell is that the film interestingly show us some stuff of relegious field. For instance, How could the view of Avatar be created in this intriguing movie? They look like a horse if you look at their face and at least three times taller than a human with a long tail.In the real world, an intelligent creature betwen a human and animal can not be found by somone who contend that their ancestor were monkeys.Besides the view of Avatar, People can transform their brain and memories into the an Avatar's body. I mean People were physically in Avatar but a human in mentality. Indeed, This trasformation in moive support someone who beleive to get a life in different body again after death. At the end of moive, a lot of birds help Avatar make their powerful enemies beaten in a war.There is a same story in holy Koran which is generally told to give a lesson for mankind.

I hope you dont get me wrong. There is no intention of criticizing the way written like this. If I were a director in a movie, I would be inspired by material I had read or the event I had encountered before. This talented man, who is the director of Avatar movie, has not only thought of the scenario but also make the audience force to dwell or brood on what was happed.For this reason, fictional movies and novels attract many people.Would you like to write me about your idea if you watched this movie in 3D style at the cinema?

The train

In a hurry, he had to go out of his office to attain the last train. Being punctual was surely one of his main personalities, let alone missing train.Seing that something important happened in his work, his remarkable feauture was about to be postponed in the face of emyty train station.

He was trying to take contol of his breath when he arrived at the station. It had to be his lucky day.With her smiling face, the beautiful lady, who sold tickets, asked him if he bought a lottery ticket instead of one.As a matter of fact that the technological modern train was never expected to be late , albeit conventional trains. He finally took deep breath to find his armchair when the train was moving slowly. All cells of his body told him that a sweet holiday was absolutely necessary. After wearing year in the business life, It was definitely deserving of staying away what he had done and his usual environtment.He pondered over the condition of working life in his country for a while.No matter how much you could stand up for your right, after all, you had to obey the law or the order of your lovely boss.Never mind about finding the solution of hard working, he didn't even convince himself of the fact that the extra cash wasn't worth being took on too much work.It couldn't change the reality that the rich men was unable to buy the hapiness or some of privileged time they had omitted before but had to live.By listening to the sound of control panel, He was distracted from brooding on overwork. He realy didn't suppose that a simple ' beep' sound of control panel on the back of armchair made him goose bump at all over his body.

The driver had to open the energery of this wonderful technical device.It was unbelievably included in two different machines.One of them was an extra ordinary television you could watch a lot of channels beside thousand videos saved in its memory.The second one was a perfect computer which could connect the internet by online.He ordered a dinner service from the list on the secreen by choosing the computer option and putting his credit cart in its socket.Prepayment did work out well for him because of being able to eat his meal just one hour later or whenever he wanted at restaurant wagon.It was not still night and, he could see the outside of train from windows.On the other hand, how could it be took place when the train was as fast as an airplane.What he could see from window was passing him such a race car and, this inevitably make him nauseous.So, he paid attention to what happen in the train.There were an old couple cuddling each other next to him as if they were on honeymoon period. He looked at them admiringly to notice the hapiness and the peace on their faces.There was also a student in front of him. She was probably in examanination term so that books never moved on her hands.It would not be fair if he didn't take care of little girl who was trying to walk along the hall of this luxurious wagon.Finally, his little boy living his heart found his partner to play a simple game. He whispered himself '' I wish I could come back to my childhood and be a boy as little as this cute girl even for a moment.’’

The full of families and passengers cheerfully continued their journey on the wagon of this precious train.He was happy to get the awareness of ongoing life at this moving room.’’ In fact, wasn't the world such a train ‘‘ he asked himself. The roles were same, but players were different.People had been started travelling to an unknown future.With the ' beep ' sound of the control panel, He startled again and come back to the life.It was the time he had to leave the wagon to eat dinner.

Tulip

Today, I wake up early in the morning.It is obvious that the weather become warm and the Sun start showing it's face again.The spring paint flowers, grass and tress with a lot of colours.Nobady claim that this change doesn’t affect the emotion of human.

It is just the time I had to mention about the flowers.If somebody want to go out in my country, flowers will probably say you ' welcome ' with their smiling face.Even if it is just not good enough, gardening and feeding flowers are increasingly becoming more popular.Some of ancestry forgotten tradition and habit finally come back to make our life additional meaning.If we want to tell one of them in term of flowers, it is not possible to pass the Tulip.This noble flower always impress me too much , which drifts me a magical land.As a sign of coming spring season, tulips fill most of gardens and streets.You are not able to be aware of how you spend your time while watching their gorgeous colourful show.With my friends, I visited a park at weekend where there are a lot of wonderful tulips. I am likely to tell you wrong. It was not just a park but an unbelieavable paradise.As you know, there is something you can't describe with your weak words. Althought my friends have advised me to go there, I found what they said was exaggerated at all. When looking at the admirition of my face in the park , they unintentionally laughted at me. If you turn your head on the left side, a group of hundreds yellow tulips appear in the eyes of visitor.If you look at another side, yellow tulips turned into red tulips.You can see nearly all kind of colours of tulips.

I have to thank my old ancestor for giving us this beautiful flower .The tulip was known as the symbol of belief for Allah in the Ottoman Empire.Families in this empire grew a lot of tulips in their garden.You can easly notice that tulip figures drawn on tiles were used in the historical mosques.Each onions of tulip were sold in extra high cost.In the face of many wars, tulip started losing its value at the end of Ottoman Empire. In the last ten years, Indeed, tulip want to find it’s old place between Turkish people.Nevertheless, It went to Holland from Ottoman , tulip in my country isn’t still as important as in Holland. Our own customs about tulip have to be created again in turism sector.I don’t realy deny that a lot of photos of tulips are taken and then present them at the some of sites over the net. However, It would be better if an international organization was arranged in a lot competitions about photos ,videos, pictures and another art of tulips.Indeed , I am not able to understand why we dont exhibit our own values and historical places to the world. It absolutely merit more serious attention and make effort to come back again to it’s deserving glory place.

Tulip is to love all of created things, environtments. I am quite sure that if someone like flowers and tulip, he /she can’t do bad things on purpose. Bear in mind that the love of tulip gives human a lot of good behaviours besides the love . Do you know anything we need more than love? To sum up, we have to give enough importance about tulips and teach the love of them to our next generation.

Story3

In the dark night,he was listening to the silence of this city and watching the shadow of unpredictable things.His eyes focused on the same direction as if they read some of exciting pages in the best-seller novel.Maybe ,the reality of life would play it's role on the fateful secreen to tell what was going on.

The ache of heart covered all of his body.The old memories had to be vanished in his vulnerable brain.He felt like that his body was divided into two parts.The sudden light from a brigh star appeared on the his left side. All things he could see started fading away in the misty air.It was not possible to keep his compusure and stop shivering his body while the laugh of worthless and contemptible woman filled his room.By holding a red apple, her temptation couldn't be denial at the same time.He was not ready to sell his soul.To be able to conquer the peak of Everest mountain, the endless desires had to help his appetite.There were alot of eyes shining and opening widely while a lot of golden money was dropped to the ground.It was pitty that his starvation still continued even if there was anything he couldn't bought.Somehow, the silence of this dark night was broken by the thunder.The thin laugh of witch and the sound of lightning were mixing in his gloomy room.what was it to put an end of his hunger? His chest was not able to move anymore to lose the control of his poor existance.He had to leave this awfully dreadful environtment to get the fresh air as soon as possible.And then , his loneliness became a company of the raining at the center of dark street.The sky had to show it's mercy so that his tears finally joined the water of nature.

The rainning continued all night.By getting warm and holy bath, he felt like all of his dress and dirty body was be cleaned at all.Each drops took the each of painful thoughts wandering in his brain.Maybe, the powerful words whispered by his lip all night and his precious tears helped him clean what he didn't want.The sun slowly rises in the east and start making his frozen body heat.when dawn broke, all of black disgusting shadows were swallowed one by one in a miraculous tunnel.In fact, it lasted a long time to pass this extremely diffucult examination.Enveriontment was slowly changing to show it's beauty again.Afterwards,he found himself in the center of an unbelievable field which full of daisies,violets,jasmines and roses. His face looked happy to sniff the rich fragrance of this garden flower.As a statue, he unconsciously listened to the concert of nightingales.There were no any clues about being afraid of hungriness from his face.Indeed, he complately turned into a different man.Howover, he also thought of the fact that almost his life was spent in vain.In his eyes, they were not worthy things he had valued before.After his long journey and exciting adventure , he could finally see the beginning of wisdom's way.

The observer has affected the ongoing life in quantum theory. He come back in essensial presence and didn't battle with this reality.Possession and the attractive desires of world can’t be ignored at all.On the another hand, those , who is trying to satisfy their appetite by eating stone , doesnt become aware of why they have been created.

Adaptation

I haven't felt well on monday since I was a student.It seem that this feeling doesn't only belong to me.When you get up early at the beginning of new week, you will absolutely not make effort to see a lot of sullen faces.

Of course, people are never expected to get a grin face on monday.Instead of working, Mankind is liable to ly on the bed . At least, I feel like sleeping all day if we mention about monday's morning.You are not able to guess how sweet a bit of sleeping time is if you know that you have to wake up in the morning.It prove me that there is an adaptation problem to start a new week and working time.Even a few days on the weekend make my metabolism slow down so that I can keep away from the bustling and stressful life.For this reason, being able to adapt myself to new week seem so diffucult.If I said I had got a massive depression on monday , you would say me I exaggareted this issue.Is there anybody who can easly spend the time on monday.The answer must be ' yes ' if you also spend ur weekend appropriately.Excuse me, my last sentence practicaly doesn't take place at weekend.First of all, I have to go out of the routine working day if I want to feel that weekend is a holiday to rest.In fact , when the week come to the end, I need forgeting all of working life and making fun as well.It is also ironic that this necessity cause my body tired in different way. So, we come to the classical truth again that the egg exit from the hen or the hen exit from the egg.
Nowdays, I have beeen so tired because of the fact that I am getting older.Maybe , it will be good if I change my resting and entertaintment style. As keeping same rule in everything,I should take a blanced way but avoid the extreme things.However,There are an enourmous number of paremeters playing our own life even if you pay attention to how you should live.In Turkiye, we faced one of them on Sunday .It is anounced in all of tv channels and radios that we will pass summer time.Oh my Goodness, while I am not able to deal with the adaptation of new week, an extra trouble will occur in my all next week.What we have to do is that we will change our clock to add one hour.Occording to authorities,owing to this change , we will save more energy and also use more daylight in the summer. For instance , adding one hour means that when it is 7 o'clock at the previous winter time, it shows 8 o'clock. I am quite sure that you can easly guess how it is diffucult when we get up in the morning at new time system.Because , not only does watchs affect the time but also body's time.Althought we are not conscious of the fact that everything is related with body's time in our life , we will do most of things one hour before.At least , in my country, we will get up or go to the bed early untill we are accustomed to live a life in the new time system.

I dont know how much time it can last for adaptation.what I know is that there is no any means instead of obeying government's rules. The mixture of both the beginning of week and the adaptation of new time system realy gave me a wonderful monday at this week.To protect myself against insomnia and headache problem, I shoud focus on the clock in harmony with biological body's time.

The Spring

I can't believe my eyes.Finally , spring says us ' hello ' with the smiling face. Somehow, the begining of spring season always drifts me in deep thoughts.The miracle of nature will start playing its role and paint all over our country and also the world in the green colour.

Pls, dont get me wrong.I never complain that the winter is terribly bad.For a long time ago , I have learned that I should relish each of seconds in the life.What I am afarid of the fact that I am not able to take control of the time.When getting older and older , you feel like the time turn into a race in 100 metre.It seem that year become such a month.So , What I am trying to tell you that I am not realy expected this season too early.If we look at what I told in diffent approach, you understand that you will certanly be an old man and reach an avoidable end.Yesterday , while I was driving my car , I was listening to a program on radio.This program was about how we could be a young person as long as we can .Of course , I am not an expert in cosmetic section or field.Without any doubts, I am not interested in this subject too much. I turned on the the radio spontaneously and faced this program.Rather than the knowlages about make-up, One of her explanation took my attention. She said that 'if you want to be a young one , don’t think about the death and on the contrary, imagine a life forever.' I think she was also not a good psychotherapist or she passed the different area for her job.

Surrealistic thoughts can easly cause a lot of painful problems.How can we human ignore what she said even if we meet it a lot of times in the life.In my opinion , most of good behaviours will be absolutely acquired a lot and, we will also keep away from some of bad things if we think about the death time to time.Pls , imagine that you have got only a few days to pass away.I am sure that we would not be capable of breaking any hearts on this condition.We could see that a lot of important things would become meaningless. If a life can’t be guaranteed at tommorrow, what is the point to get full of stressful life style , hadret , overwhelming ambition, humilating, betrayal and so on .Pls dont say me all of what I wrote are not related with being a young one.Of course , It doesnt mean that we should totatly give up working or live your life at an isolated island. Keeping a blanced way is generally a wonderful choice to have a nice life.That is why we have to work as if we will never die and , we have to be ready as if we will die tomorrow.

To sum up , the awareness of being death keep our legs on the ground as opposed to living a life in crazy way and forget the some of unavoidable realities. I am sad for atheist not to belive a life after death. Because , what I wrote in this article give them pain.Even if they are trying to ignore the reality of death , this never help them find out how to be a young one. The spring just play it’s role at this point.The nature will start exposing it’s green existance and be refreshed in the spring after a long of time in the winter sleeping. I wish you the full of the joys of spring.